Link tip: About the word wife, coming from a woman

[syredronning]

thefourthvine has a wonderful posting on the problems of people with the word Wife when it comes to lesbian relationship. Go and read now!

I wish lesbian and gay relationships were just normal, but they're not (yet?). I'm in a "normal" marriage but I'm not straight and get so often annoyed about how our society is so damn heteronormative and that most people are just never thinking about anyone NOT being straight.